Habits are the auto pilot in our lives.  If we form good ones we will get good results.  Bad ones, likewise, produce results of their own kind.

Most of the significant problems we face in life are not the result of sudden calamity, though those are certainly to be encountered from time to time.  Rather, most of our problems were brought on slowly, over time, either by things we did wrong, or by things we didn't do that were right.

One of my favorite quotes comes from two characters in a novel.  One asks the other, "So how did you go bankrupt?" to which the other answers, "Very gradually, and then suddenly."

That's the way it is in our lives.  We abuse our body in little, consistent ways over the course of years.  Then one day we are sitting on a doctors table and get the bad news.  We are shocked, scared, and regretful.  But by then it's too late.  Financially speaking, it's the same way.  Nobody goes broke in a day.  Usually, it's the long term duplication of bad practices that add up over time.

Never underestimate the power of accumulated action over time.  Good action can produce staggeringly successful results.  Negligent actions can produce catastrophically dire consequences. 

As leaders, we understand that the choice is ours.  We don't get to pick the cards we're dealt, so to speak, but we are responsible for how we play them.  And don't think that everything depends on those initial cards.  I've studied enough successful people to realize that the dealing of the cards is never the complete story, just the "back story."  If you were dealt some pretty tough cards financially or physically, it doesn't mean that you can't overcome the odds and still gain some success.  It just means that it will be interesting and will demand the best you have to give.  But that's not so bad.  You're supposed to be giving your best, anyway!

So spend less time considering the hand you were dealt and give more attention to how you are going to play your cards.  Form good, productive, healthy, long-term, purpose-driven, integrity-rich habits.  Over time, which will in that case actually be on your side, you might just amaze yourself at how "the game" ends up.

Or, sew poor habits into your life and, rest assured, you will be heading for a train wreck.  The choice is yours.   

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6 responses to “Habits”

  1. Phyllis Hoff Avatar
    Phyllis Hoff

    Chris:
    Wow! I love this.
    Never underestimate the power of accumulated action over time. That is so so true. I have done this in good ways and in some not so good ways over time.
    Thanks for the assessment check.
    We all should be giving our best all the time, and I think we just need to be reminded of that every once in a while.
    God Bless You for always keeping us on track.
    Phyllis

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  2. lisa Avatar

    Fantastic post! It is really resonating with me as I am trying to make my own “gradual shift” a positive one. Thank you again for consistently wonderful articles!

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  3. Dave Nelson Avatar
    Dave Nelson

    Such Encouragement!
    It’s what I need …A right cross to the kisser.
    A train can switch instantly by going over a switch, maybe slowing down, so why cant I? I can!
    You do know what we need.
    Keep telling us.
    Never be afraid to give us both barrels.
    Just think how nice the ride home will be after making a friend,
    riding home in the sedan deville with the air conditioned seats! LOL
    Dave

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  4. shannon Lasieiwcz Avatar
    shannon Lasieiwcz

    Well said Chris!The moment of truth is when you let go of the wheel and let Our Lord and Savior grab a hold of it. The choice is yours. As it is He that will get you to where you need to be. You will find your God given Purpose in L.I.F.E. Thank you so much for leading the way! Truly AMAZING!
    The Future is looking BRIGHT!
    God Bless
    Shannon
    McHenry, IL

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  5. debbie942 Avatar
    debbie942

    Habits, our best friends or our worst enemies. Choose them carefully!

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  6. abhishek shukla Avatar

    a realistic post indeed , bad habits are slow poison

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