Update: I hope everyone is having a truly Merry Christmas season. Please take a moment and read the many great comments that are attached to this post. It is heartwarming and uplifting to share with so many awesome people. God bless you all!

I have a love-hate relationship with technology. It's not that I'm a neophyte; having spent most of my youth in engineering and working on my own motorized equipment. It's just that most of this fancy, electronic gadgetry doesn't work the way it's supposed to.

For some reason the Instant Messenger on my computer went on the fritz. The central CD player stopped working and won't even open to release the 5 CDs held hostage inside. The IPOD nest on the receiver won't play. The printer isn't working correctly. The Internet phone has bandwidth issues. The smart phone "hangs" when running certain applications.

Sound familiar?

Imagine if the tools of yester-year functioned as unreliably as those of today. Take the shovel, for instance. Imagine if twenty percent of the time, when you picked up a shovel, it wouldn't dig correctly. It needed someone steeped in the art of shovel-tweaking to mess with it for ten minutes to "kind of" get it working. And then, it would only work if you yanked out the batteries first. And when you needed it, I mean REALLY needed it (like having to bury a muskrat that had mysteriously died of lead poisoning), it wouldn't work at all. A call to India to tech-support would only suck an hour out of your schedule and leave you feeling anxious and irritated.

But these aren't actually real problems of which I speak, are they?

And that's the point. Nobody is going to cry too hard for us experiencing electronic inconveniences in our overly abundant material world. We get annoyed, frustrated, agitated, and sometimes downright ticked off when our ridiculous surplus of gadgetry behaves as unreliably as it is unnecessary.

Which brings me to this: is all this nonsensical complication really supposed to improve our lives? Or is it really just the offspring of a population out of control with its own entertainment and convenience fixations? 

I'll tell you this: while my GPS may make things a little easier sometimes, and while everybody from the teenager to the grandmother is addicted to cell phones and texting, the sum total of all this "convenience" and "communication" and "information" is zero in terms of life-improvement. They are clutter in a noisy world.

Life improvement comes from real things, the kind of things that never break down, that work every time, and don't require a Bill Gates-type personality to make them function. The list of these things, though increasingly crowded to the background in our video-game, high-def, mega-pixel world, is endless, and waiting quietly for our rediscovery of them. Here is just a sample:

1. the hug of a child

2. the kiss of a spouse

3. a fire in the fireplace

4. a stroll through the woods

5. a heart-felt "I love you"

6. home-baked cookies

7. a spontaneous conversation with neighbors

8. a silent prayer

9. a sunset

10. the sound of a gentle spring rain

11. laughter

12. a pat on the back

13. playing catch

14. lying in the sun

15. listening to ocean waves roll 

16. watching fish around dock pilings

17. throwing stones into a calm pond

18. pondering timeless questions

19. wrestling with children

20. laughing at ourselves

Just a teaser list, really. The idea, though, is obvious. The more we crowd our lives with unimportant contraptions, entertainments, distractions, and noise, the less room there is mentally and physically for things like those on this list. 

What things truly improve your life? What types of moments would you put on a similar list of your own? For this holiday season, maybe we can do a little "gift exchange" right here on this blog. All three of you readers out there can contribute. I, for one, look forward to reading what you have to share. After all, I've got nothing else to do. All my electronic stuff is broken! 

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36 responses to “Things That REALLY Improve Our Lives”

  1. Andrew Zentner Avatar
    Andrew Zentner

    Giving a smile away to a stranger
    Visiting grandma at the retirement home when it seems inconvenient and out of the way.
    Daily prayer
    Calling someone rather than texting or facebooking.
    Becoming Chris Brady’s 4th reader!

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  2. Brian Avatar
    Brian

    Snow covered hillside and trees viewed from warm library room
    2.Walk down the driveway
    Cooking pots rattling in the kitchen
    Wife’s footsteps in house.
    Cat jumping in your lap,purring
    6.Wife singing
    Fountain bubbling
    New book to read
    Books

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  3. All I want for Christmas Avatar
    All I want for Christmas

    Chris – I would add Freedom to make choices – to your list, that’s all I want for Christmas – I think this comic strip illustrates it well – http://www.chron.com/apps/comics/showComick.mpl?date=20091214&name=Zits

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  4. Bernie Bierschbach Avatar
    Bernie Bierschbach

    Awesome message Chris, these 20 examples you listed make for an inner peace that everyone should have, not for just the Christmas season, but for a peacefullness that last a lifetime. Merry Christmas from our family to yours. Bernie and Amy Bierschbach

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  5. Phyllis Hoff Avatar
    Phyllis Hoff

    Chris:
    I could not agree more. I am getting ready to have all 40+ people in my family at my house for Christmas Eve, and I feel so blessed. I will get all those hugs and I love you’s and as we pray before dinner we will remember those of our family who are in heaven looking down on us and having their own celebration.
    We won’t have our mom again this year, but I know she has been with me all day, getting things ready.
    What a wonderful post at Christmas time.
    Smiles
    A good deed done for someone you don’t know
    Christmas music playing as you are cooking
    There are so many. Your list is awesome, and I can relate to so many.
    Thank you and God Bless you, Terri and the kids on this wonderful Christmas Eve day.
    Love you guys.

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  6. Thomas Abbott Avatar
    Thomas Abbott

    Hi Chris, many of the best gifts are the ones not bought but the the most fun I have during the holiday’s is singing Christmas songs with the family. I always loved that growing up as a kid over at my grandma’s house. But I wanted to send this to you and see what you thought. We took the Twelve Days of Christmas and made it the Twelve Days of MonaVie, let me know what you think.
    The Twelve days of MonaVie
    On the first day of MonaVie, my Team gave to me,
    My very own EBC.
    On the second day of MonaVie, my Team gave to me,
    A can of EMV and my very own EBC.
    On the third day of MonaVie, my Team gave to me,
    A shot of Active, a can of EMV and my very own EBC.
    On the fourth day of MonaVie, my Team gave to me,
    My own 1st Night Pack, a shot of Active, a can of EMV and my very own EBC.
    On the fifth day of MonaVie, my Team gave to me,
    Standing order tickets, my own 1st Night Pack, a shot of Active, a can of EMV and my very own EBC.
    On the sixth day of MonaVie, my Team gave to me,
    Depth in the taproot, standing order tickets, my own 1st Night Pack, a shot of Active, a can of EMV and my very own EBC.
    On the seventh day of MonaVie, my Team gave to me,
    Several system counts, depth in the taproot, standing order tickets, my own 1st Night Pack, a shot of Active, a can of EMV and my very own EBC.
    On the eight day of MonaVie, my Team gave to me,
    Team approach volume, several system counts, depth in the taproot, standing order tickets, my own 1st Night Pack, a shot of Active, a can of EMV and my very own EBC.
    On the ninth day of MonaVie, my Team gave to me,
    A Top 50 pack, team approach volume, several system counts, depth in the taproot, standing order tickets, my own 1st Night Pack, a shot of Active, a can of EMV and my very own EBC.
    On the tenth day of MonaVie, my Team gave to me,
    A Media Warrior Trunk, a Top 50 pack, team approach volume, several system counts, depth in the taproot, standing order tickets, my own 1st Night Pack, a shot of Active, a can of EMV and my very own EBC.
    On the eleventh day of MonaVie, my Team gave to me,
    A Black Diamond trip, a Media Warrior Trunk, a Top 50 pack, team approach volume, several system counts, depth in the taproot, standing order tickets, my own 1st Night Pack, a shot of Active, a can of EMV and my very own EBC.
    On the twelfth day of MonaVie, my Team gave to me,
    A Policy Council ring, a Black Diamond trip, a Media Warrior Trunk, a Top 50 pack, team approach volume, several system counts, depth in the taproot, standing order tickets, my own 1st Night Pack, a shot of Active, a can of EMV and my very own EBC.

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  7. Mike Avatar
    Mike

    I’m with you, Chris. This Christmas I’d like to give you 24 extra hours of Christmas Day to pretend you’re a kid again with absolutely no concern about anything except how much fun you can have with whomever is around and do it as fast as you can and as reckless as possible until you crash. That’s the best thing I can think of to give you right now. Merry Christmas!

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  8. matthew Avatar
    matthew

    Thanks chris!!
    Great message you put out. Sometimes we get wraped up in busy and forget about things you just said. Just passed out some cookies around the block and some peoples faces were priceless. One older lady and her husband was so excited I stoped by. All i did was just show them love and tears about came out of them.
    Thanks again for all you do !!
    Merry christmas !

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  9. Ted Avatar
    Ted

    Merry Christmas to the Brady’s!
    Thanks, Chris.

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  10. Charles A. Avery Avatar
    Charles A. Avery

    Having spent the entire day fighting the crowds in the mall, fighting the traffic all over town, and coming home to find my Christmas lights on the blink, your list actually brought tears to my eyes.
    I agree with the reader above who suggested 24 hours to be a kid at Christmas again.
    However, after all this I sent into our office, closed the door, and opened my book to read this statement, “Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is Christ the Lord.”
    I stopped and realized that everything else doesn’t matter, this is the reason for the season!
    “Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace to men on whom his favor rests.”
    Merry Christmas and Peace to you and the Brady family.

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  11. denisse gombos Avatar
    denisse gombos

    Thanks Chris for the reminder,it really is the simple things that make our hearts feel so happy and light 🙂
    *sledding with the kids!
    *a yappy dog happy to see you after running endless errands all day
    *an unexpected visit from a friend
    *sound of keys in the door,knowing hubby’s home!
    *laughing with strangers
    *cup of tea and a good book
    it’s nice to stop and think for a moment about the things that really brighten our days,Merry Christmas to you and your family!

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  12. Justin McClure Avatar

    Thanks Chris for that inspirational thought on this special holiday as we remember Christ and what he has done for us. The favorite things I like to do: Jumping in a pile of leaves, Spending Time with Family, Going for Walks with my wife, Laughing at old family photos togeather.

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  13. Jonathon Jones Avatar
    Jonathon Jones

    Hearing your kids randomly quote hymns and Scripture when running around the house.
    Listening from around the corner as your wife helps them memorize or sings with them.
    Doing something for somebody with no strings attached and no recognition.
    Receiving something that you have been praying for that nobody knew you were talking to God about.
    Benefiting from the compounded efforts of a brother in Christ who you know truly has your best interest at heart.

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  14. teamleadership1 Avatar
    teamleadership1

    Standing back and just listening to the chaos when the house is filled with family and friends celebrating together. One of my favorite sounds in the whole world!

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  15. Patti Avatar
    Patti

    I enjoy just being able to have my whole family together. Enjoy singing Christmas Carols while my sister-in-law plays the accordian. My father coming home the day before Christmas eve after fighting back from brain surgery on a tumor and losing feeling in his whole left side. He is now getting all that back slowly. I love my boys just sitting beside me and knowing they have God in their lives. I have witnessed a friend losing her 22yr. old son to an accidental overdose and not having God in his life. Christmas needs to be simple and so do our lives again. Spend more time with the ones you love. You never know what tomorrow brings and no matter how much technology we have it won’t change that. Have a very Merry Christmas and I thank you Chris for always keeping us on the right track.

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  16. Brandon Holder Avatar
    Brandon Holder

    Serving and Loving other people and knowing that it is the Lords work that I am doing.

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  17. Nagesh Avatar

    Thanks for sharing such a nice information with us here. I also do blogging and usually do it about leadership. M having my personal leadership blog too. Please do visit that and share some more interesting things and your views about leadership.

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  18. Skipper Avatar

    HOwdy Chris, A most joyous SEASON GREETING to you, your family, and all of the TEAM.
    Thanks to you and the TEAM for all the great articles and comments.
    Skipper

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  19. Lauren Avatar
    Lauren

    1) encouraging others
    2)really looking into a significant others or family members eyes
    3)true time with God
    4) looking at the sky
    5) a good book
    6) thinking of the future
    7) laughing until your stomach hurts
    8) knowing the little things somone tends to do
    9) a proud look from a parent or husband

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  20. Cathy - Team Rascals Avatar
    Cathy – Team Rascals

    Chris,
    Some of my favorite things at Christmas:
    Saying “Merry Christmas” to shopkeepers, waitstaff and everyone else who helps us.
    Making home made cookies and chocolates to give to friends and loved ones. Seeing the smiles on their faces when they get them.
    Unexpected time off on Christmas Eve from my Manager, aka the Grinch . . .
    Singing Christmas carols.
    My granddaughter’s smiles and laughter on Christmas morning, opening presents, and later on, when playing on with my Mom’s dog.
    Home made chicken soup when almost everyone in the house has a cold . . .
    A fresh coating of snow.
    Hot chocolate when you come in from the cold . . .
    Watching favorite Christmas movies: “The Nativity Story,” “The Polar Express,” “The Muppett Christmas Carol,” and all three Tim Allen “Santa Clause” movies.

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  21. Maryann Avatar

    I agree . . . a beautiful list the many “things that improve our lives”
    I’d like to add two more:
    Becoming a 1st time grandma,amazing!
    Taking my therapy dog to a nursing home and having patients just smile and so appreciate the visit from my loveable black lab

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  22. Kirk and Cassie Birtles Avatar
    Kirk and Cassie Birtles

    Chris…
    I couldn’t agree more! Here are a few more to add to the list:
    *Waking to find my 4 year old half snoring in the bed next to me, and wondering how he got there.
    *Fresh snow on the spruce trees as I drive to Northern Michigan.
    *The adrenaline rush of your first deer sighting after sitting in anticipation for what seems like days.
    *The kids unbridled excitement on Christmas morning.
    *The feeling you get when you pay another person an authentic compliment and you see them better for the experience.
    *Those quick, unexpected moments when you once again realize that you have Christ in your life and that you are saved by grace!
    God Bless,
    Kirk Birtles

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  23. Michelle Jaquette Avatar

    “What things truly improve your life? What types of moments would you put on a similar list of your own?” Here’s some of mine:
    Top 5 Personal Grammie moments that improve my life – (There is a reason they call them Grand-children. We get a chance to improve the second time around!)
    1. My first grandchild – 9 yr. old Granddaughter’s excitement about reaching her two digit birthday in a few more months.
    2. My second – 8 yr. old Granddaughter reading her new Grammie Book out loud, smiling when reading the songs we wrote together on the inside page.
    3. My third – 7 yr. old Grandson – reading out loud from his Grammie Book, Happy Birthday Jesus!
    4. My fourth – 3 yr. old Grandson – very melancholyish looking up and saying, it works like THIS Grammie!
    5. My fifth – 2 yr. old sanguine Granddaughter – her eyes sparkling, her arms stretched out, and squealing, I LUB YOU GRAMMIE!
    Top 5 Business
    1. Becoming Chris’ Brady’s 5th reader/writer. After #4 claimed their position, I had to officially grab #5 for the above 5 personal reasons! (Chris, thank you – You sooo make us all smile) 
    2. Realizing after listening to my first box of Team CD’s, that I had found home and family with Team.
    3. Gratitude that from my current J.O.B. – listening to the hurting stories from people all over the Country, knowing we have the answers for them. – Each story and answer is found within “The 3 Train Wrecks”.
    4. Knowing God is guiding Team.
    5. Gratitude for all of my blessings, re-connection to my purpose, and renewed strength.
    All of the above – Priceless.

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  24. Kristen Avatar
    Kristen

    Agreed. My frustration with all the “clutter” this year caused me to buy a book where some peace could be found – “The Purpose of Christmas,” by Rick Warren. It was such a perfect reminder of what the season is all about. We tend to get so caught up in the shopping and festivities that we forget why we are celebrating in the first place. Thank you for this post…
    Here are a couple more for your list:
    1. A night so calm and quiet that you can hear the snowflakes fall.
    2. A bright full moon on a snow covered winter night.
    3. The unfiltered imagination and honest wholesome laughter that comes from my three children playing together.
    Thank you for all that you and Terri do and I hope you had a truly blessed Christmas. Happy New Year.
    Kristen

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  25. Glory2gzus Avatar

    Great blog, love the timely message. I have to concur with your top 5:
    1. the hug of a child
    2. the kiss of a spouse (Ha, I don’t even have a spouse, but this may be sweet someday)
    3. a fire in the fireplace
    4. a stroll through the woods
    5. a heart-felt “I love you”
    Well stated. Have a Merry Christmas!

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  26. Juleen Ray Avatar
    Juleen Ray

    This is an amazing post. Thank you for sharing it with us again!
    too add a few ideas…
    * going for walks with my husband * knowing both of my boys are back on US soil this Christmas
    * sharing old family pictures with loved ones
    * playing with my grandson
    * sharing a good morning with the people at the bus stop as I walk by.
    * spending time with friends and family
    * a good laugh
    * a beautiful sunset
    Have a Blessed Christmas!!!

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  27. Antti Ståhl, Stockholm, Sweden Avatar
    Antti Ståhl, Stockholm, Sweden

    I just started laughing about how the universe is directing us to the righ focus constantly.. Today I got upset with my iphone turning itself off right in ther middle of uploading a thoughtful video on facebook.. And when I got home, I got to read this awesome post!!
    Chris. You´re a true Rascal!! And You keep on proving it again and over again:)
    The thing that makes me become fully alive is this:
    Experiencing uncontrollable lauughter!! I mean when my stomach and body is getting into contractions, the air is missing out of my lungs and i get cramps in my face.. That kind of laughter is when I´m closest to God 🙂
    Love you guys for doing this!! Have a Laughter-filled Christmas!!

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  28. Tyler Schlosser Avatar
    Tyler Schlosser

    Lip singing old school rock songs at stop lights while staring into the other vehicle!!

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  29. Mandie Avatar
    Mandie

    Thank you for speaking in a language I understand Chris. I spent numerous years over seas and missed out on a few family Christmases. Since then, things have changed due to the natural course of life and so to has many traditions. However, this year, Christmas was an exciting time for me to look forward to in that I got to spend time with my little nephew (off of skype) help mom in the kitchen and start new traditions with my near and dear. It is always a wonderful time to watch strangers be nice to each other .. if only we could all uphold this as something we do for the other 364 days in the year!!
    Merry Christmas to you and your near and dear and all the best in 2013!!

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  30. Ans, Halifax, NS, Canada Avatar
    Ans, Halifax, NS, Canada

    a hot chocolate on the first white, wet and wild winter storm day
    seeing the woman’s face light up when I wished her Merry Christmas, while paying for my treat
    having a hot chocolate with a friend, and not having an “end time” (Christmas Break)!
    Priceless!! Time being more valuable than $$$ . . .
    May 2013 bring you what you picture

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  31. Werner@MeetMeAtTheTop.com Avatar

    What a wonderful reminder what life is REALLY all about, I love your comment: “Life improvement comes from real things.”

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  32. Mark Weston Avatar
    Mark Weston

    Simply watching the clouds go by the moon on a nice evening.
    Gazing at the stars on a dark evening
    Haveing your back scratched.
    Scratching your loved ones back.
    A simple wink from across the room
    Pondering where the white goes when the snow melts (I think I have that one figured out)
    Realizing that you don’t need to drive that fast
    Taking a much needed nap

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  33. Rob Avatar
    Rob

    Sounds of family gathered together..

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  34. Rob Avatar
    Rob

    The Merry sounds of my kids and grandkids all together this year for Christmas. Merry Christmas.

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  35. Helen Wilkins Avatar
    Helen Wilkins

    This is a wonderful reminder to us all of what the holidays should be about. I love to spend time with family and friends. My children are all 18 and over and people keep asking me what are you getting your kids? I keep telling them I only have adults now. All I want for Christmas is time with family and friends, good food, and a healthy new year. Thank you for all you do for us and LIFE Leadership. Merry Christmas

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  36. Duane Scarborough Avatar
    Duane Scarborough

    Laying on the couch, before it’s light outside, looking at the lights twinkle on the Christmas tree…hearing my own breathing and feeling my heart beat …knowing,”I’m not finished yet”!

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