IMG_3564 What is success? 

Your answer to that question is critical in your life, because in many ways it will dictate your behavior and determine how you spend the time you've been given. Time is both a gracious gift from God and a merciless task master – it is the medium through which we live our lives but also the stern disciplinarian who stands over us with relentless continuance, refusing to slow for any purpose. In fact, it often feels as if time grows increasingly impatient with us as we age and therefore actually speeds up (remember how long summer vacation felt when you were a child)? 

I truly love the poem often attributed to Ralph Waldo Emerson:

To laugh often and much;
To win the respect of intelligent people
and the affection of children;
To earn the appreciation of honest critics
and endure the betrayal of false friends;
To appreciate beauty, to find the best in others;
To leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child,
a garden patch or a redeemed social condition;
To know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived.
This is to have succeeded.

Beautiful, truly. However, I believe this needs to be paired with the ending of my favorite Bible book, Ecclesiastes:

"Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter: Fear God and keep his commandments: for this is the whole duty of man. For God shall bring every work into judgment, with every secret thing, whether it be good, or whether it be evil."

Realizing that none of us could withstand such a judgment and therefore must be saved by the Lord Jesus Christ, for we are not "basically good" as the humanist's like to suggest, rather, our hearts are "desperately wicked, who could know [them]?" For "we all had our conversation in times past in the lusts of our flesh, fulfilling the desires of the flesh and of the mind; and were by nature the children of wrath, even as others. BUT GOD, who is rich in mercy, for his great love wherewith he loved us, even when we were dead in sins, hath quickened us together with Christ, by grace we are saved."

We must be careful indeed how we define success. 


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16 responses to “Success – An Important Definition”

  1. Cathy - Team Rascals Avatar
    Cathy – Team Rascals

    Chris,
    When I first read your (as usual) great post today (on break at work), it reminded me of something I wrote about 8 or 9 years ago. (I had to come home to copy it from the file on my laptop to post it.)
    At the time, I had been reading in that favorite book of yours, Ecclesiastes, and listening to CD’s and reading other books on this topic. Finally, I realized I had to define it for myself.
    While I realize it seems to be directed mostly (and in some places exclusively) at males, it is not and was never meant to be. I always felt I was discussing humankind in general. As with what I have found to be so with all timeless truths, these stanzas can be equally applied to both sexes, and even the one on marriage can be role-reversed for us ladies.
    Anyway, this is what I came up with:
    The Measure Of A Man
    The life of a man is not measured
    In the things he so patiently acquires.
    But the life of a man is measured
    In how well he obeys God’s desires.
    The measure of a man is not taken
    By those with whom he would compare.
    For the measure of a man is decided
    By those around him for whom he would care.
    The success of a man is not calculated
    By status or riches or fame.
    But a man finds success lies elsewhere,
    In the love of friends who know him more than by name.
    The wealth of a man is not laid out
    In a treasure he would carefully hoard.
    For a man can find wealth and treasures untold
    In the joys of serving his Lord.
    The joy of a man is not located
    In the deals he arranges to complete.
    For joy can only be found in service,
    Another’s needs that man seeks to meet.
    The leadership of a man is not noticed
    When he is always trying to take charge.
    For true leaders are found in their giving
    To others, their hearts to enlarge.
    The love of a man is not discovered
    Solely in the woman he takes for his wife.
    For a man’s love is only proven
    When, for her, he daily lays down his life.
    A man may not seem too successful
    By the standards the world may choose.
    But God considers anyone successful
    If, for His purposes, their lives He can use.

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  2. Kevin Hamm Avatar
    Kevin Hamm

    Chris,
    Great post. One thing I love about the Team culture that you have helped create is the practice of tying material goals to actions that will have eternal results. You know we talk of the three keys to wealth often. They work for both the temporal and the eternal. I love II Peter 1:5-11, “For this very reason also, applying all diligence in your faith supply moral excellence and in your moral excellence, knowledge, and in your knowledge, self control, and in your self control, perseverance, and in your perseverance, godliness and in your godliness, brotherly kindness, and in your brotherly kindness, love. For if these qualities are yours and are increasing, they render you neither useless nor unfruitful in the true knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. For if anyone lacks these qualities, he is blind or short sighted, having forgotten his purification from his former sins. Therefore, bretheren, be all the more diligent to make certain about his calling and choosing you, for as long as you practice these things, you will never stumble; for in this way the entrance into the eternal kingdom of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ will be abundantly supplied to you.” There will be reward in heaven for what we do on this earth. What the significance of that will be, we can’t fully know, but “abundantly supplied” sounds good to me. Thanks for encouraging us to make a difference and strengthen the qualities that will make a truely lasting difference.
    Kevin Hamm
    P.S. Check out the book, The Reign of the Servant Kings, by Joseph C. Dillow. I think you will find it exciting. You are making a difference, Chris, Thanks

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    Steve Sveom

    Chris…..
    you should smile for your webpage
    photo!
    Steve Sveom

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  4. Don Schultz - Team VIP Avatar
    Don Schultz – Team VIP

    Chris, thanks for your posts. They are stimulating and insightful. I appreciate the time that you take to communicate what God is teaching you through His Word and through materials that you intentionally seek out.
    I teach a Junior High Boys class at church and one of the things that I communicate to them on a regular basis regarding success, is that there are many ways success is defined, but the one that counts is whether we are living our lives in obedience to God or not. We can do lots of things that may bring notoriety, money or whatever, but being obedient to God in the daily grind of life is critical to what we will accomplish in life that has eternal significance.
    Thanks again Chris for living your life to have significant impact in the lives of the people you interact with.

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  5. Phyllis Hoff Avatar
    Phyllis Hoff

    Chris:
    Such beautiful portrayals of success. What a great teacher you are.
    Thank you.

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    it is not and was never meant to be. I always felt I was discussing humankind in general. As with what I have found to be so with all timeless truths, these stanzas can be equally applied to both sexes, and even the one on marriage can be role-reversed for us ladies.

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    Gloria Diaz

    Great post. I think I prefer the idea of being a successful leader too. You should always listen to your staff and get ideas from them about how to run the business, they are on the front line after all.

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    While I realize it seems to be directed mostly (and in some places exclusively) at males, it is not and was never meant to be. I always felt I was discussing humankind in general. As with what I have found to be so with all timeless truths, these stanzas can be equally applied to both sexes, and even the one on marriage can be role-reversed for us ladies.

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    Owen Derry

    Teddy Roosevelt said some great things in his “The Man with the Muck-Rake” speech. Link is below along with the last few lines of that speech.
    http://www.americanrhetoric.com/speeches/teddyrooseveltmuckrake.htm
    “Materially we must strive to secure a broader economic opportunity for all men, so that each shall have a better chance to show the stuff of which he is made. Spiritually and ethically we must strive to bring about clean living and right thinking. We appreciate that the things of the body are important; but we appreciate also that the things of the soul are immeasurably more important.
    The foundation stone of national life is, and ever must be, the high individual character of the average citizen.”

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  10. Sid Thornton Avatar

    Success. hmmm. can man really define it. what truly will result in “well done, good and faithful servant”. Billy Grahm doubted that he would hear that. Quite a thought.
    I recommend a good book perhaps for AGO – Radical by David Platt. I believe that radical obedience to Christ will lead to success yet not for our glory or satisfaction but for God’s. That truly is the paradox of human success.
    Chris, So glad you are always thinking! Considering. Meditating on Truth.

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    While I realize it seems to be directed mostly (and in some places exclusively) at males, it is not and was never meant to be. I always felt I was discussing humankind in general. As with what I have found to be so with all timeless truths, these stanzas can be equally applied to both sexes, and even the one on marriage can be role-reversed for us ladies.

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    Eric and Rachael Gregory

    I believe a simple definition of success would be ‘to achieve that which a person sets out to achieve’. This refers to anything, from being a doctor, a pastor, or a Black Diamond. To stop before achieving that end would be called quitting, and that is not honorable.
    Having defined success, I must now refer to the D.L. Moody quote, that reminds us to choose carefully what we set our sights on to achieve. To pursue and achieve something useless is to truly waste a life granted to us by God. Therefore, one must choose carefully what he sets his mind on to achieve, because the getting of it may be the greatest failure of all.

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    Dovemeek@yahoo.com

    Wow!

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    Hunting.Targ

    In the loreland of Star Trek, Spock once said to Kirk;
    “Commanding a starship is your first, best destiny. Anything else – is a waste of material.”
    I believe that we each have a purpose, a mission which we are uniquely qualified to pursue. Since you are on the topic, I have encountered two teaching series that marry success principles with spirituality;
    Success God’s Way by Charles Stanley
    http://store.intouch.org/p-3783-success-gods-way-cd.aspx
    and Good to Great in God’s Eyes by Chip Ingram
    http://store.livingontheedge.org/store/product/good-to-great-in-gods-eyes
    This is not a sales pitch; these are both series from non-profits that I have heard aired on radio and found very, very helpful.

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    Such beautiful portrayals of success. What a great teacher you are.

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    The foundation stone of national life is, and ever must be, the high individual character of the average citizen.

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