MadmegIn Dante’s Divine Comedy, in Canto III, Dante is guided by Virgil, the Roman poet of antiquity, to the gates of Hell.  The first beings they meet on this perilous journey are a group of lost souls called the "Drearies," who linger around Hell’s gate.  As Dante writes, they are "those who lived without blame or praise."  Author Thomas Cahill calls them "whining wraiths who never truly lived at all, the lukewarm, who are ‘as hateful to God as to his enemies,’ the people no one claims."

To me the Drearies are the very opposite of leaders.  They lived on earth for a number of years, ate food, labored at things, and then died.  Their lives are entirely forgotten because they stood for nothing, fought for nothing, risked nothing, attempted nothing, and died as nothings. And, at least in Dante’s imagination, their eternal life will be comprised of endlessly more of the same.

Leaders are passionate beings.  They attack the status quo, sometimes at great peril to their own peace and well-being.  But leaders can do no less.  They live while they are alive.  Their internal light shines bright for accomplishment, contribution, service, impact, making a difference, and leaving a legacy.  Leaders burn with a purpose to fulfill and never feel quite right when not in alignment with that purpose. 

Tragically, though, many people fall into the trap of the Drearies.  They don’t do much wrong, but they don’t do much right either.  In fact, they don’t do much at all.  And if they do, they simply dabble.  Pastor Robert L. Dickie was given some advice early in his ministry from an experienced and stately gentleman: "Don’t be a dabbler."  He says that thought always stuck with him and has served to keep him focused on his biggest priorities.

Why are so many people complacent?  Why do so many dabble?  Why do so many frit away their days in nothingness and wake up at the end of it all and wonder, "what if?"  I wish I had the answers to these and all similar questions.  But I do know that life lived fully is better than life simply lived out.  We shouldn’t tip-toe through life trying to get to death safely.  We should stand and make a difference with the gifts God has given us.  Through prayer, counsel, scripture, dream-building, service to others, and meditation, we should search for our life’s purpose and then chase after it with everything we’ve got.  You will never regret the time you spent giving your all to a worthy purpose. 

So find it.

Give to it.

Live it.   

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9 responses to ““Drearies” vs. Leaders”

  1. Ian Avatar

    Get busy living or get busy dying!!!
    -shawshank redemption
    6 this to freedom!!!!

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  2. Lydia Seibert Avatar
    Lydia Seibert

    Chris,
    Another great post! What if all the pastors and all the members of every church in America would “just do this?” Wouldn’t we change the world?
    Lead on!
    Lydia

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  3. dean clouse Avatar

    Great post buddy. In my restaurant career, I have only fired two people in fifteen years. The first because he repeated too many mistakes and the second because he never made any mistakes. The second was (I now know) one of these “drearies”. I have always loved working for and with people who made mistakes, because that is the best way to learn and to perfect, so long as the lesson is learned. But the most miserable I have ever been is when I am surrounded by “drearies” who never make a mistake because they never venture into the unknown. I never read that story, but now I know I will. Thanks again!

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  4. Phyllis Hoff Avatar
    Phyllis Hoff

    Chris:
    You are so right. There are alot of complacent people. I see it every day at work. They do just enough to get through the day.
    It is so refreshing to see those that truly put forth tremendous effort, and enjoy doing it, because they have true passion.
    You and Orrin certainly attacked the status quo, and definitely, at great peril to your own peace and well-being.
    That is what makes you such true leaders. You and Orrin certainly have that internal light shining with your accomplishments, contributions, service, impact, and making a difference in so many people’s lives.
    Thank you and your families for all you do for all of us.
    Phyllis

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  5. Deb Symons Avatar
    Deb Symons

    Chris, I just wanted to Thank You so much for NOT being a drearie, and moving forward with courage and strength to help build a future of non-dabblers.
    I am so honored to know such a group of people that actually take charge of things happening in their lives, instead of just watching the world pass before their very eyes.
    What a wonderful calling God has provided each and every one of us to live up to! Enjoy the journey!!

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  6. DaveC Avatar
    DaveC

    Hello, my name is Dave and I have been a Dreary for most of my life. I think that someone needs to start a “Drearies Anonymous.” Oh wait, someone already did and I am in it. It is called TEAM.
    “Fire and Honor”
    DaveC
    (All Star Team)

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  7. Dave Nelson Avatar
    Dave Nelson

    Hi Chris,
    Failing has different consequences in places or jobs. Baseball players can succeed 33 out of a 100 or fail 67 times and be a star. Would that average work for a car manufacturer? or an airline pilot?
    how about package delivery?
    Is losing a baseball game equal to death and destuction as a result of your failure? Do both teach the same lesson? or build the same character.
    Failure in network marketing means you get paid less and don’t get your dreams. You don’t die or get put into jail or get impeached for lying. Maybe the IRS audits your income taxes.
    I think GOD sent his SON because when Adam and Eve did their fruit eating thing they made us dabblers. They ate from the tree of knowledge but weren’t smart enough to eat from the tree of life or the tree of godly powers. Look around you or the world. The world runs with most people being dabblers. We never get all good or all evil because dabblers aren’t smart enough for that plus we die quickly.
    I know my post are crazy. I read somewhere to look at what everyone else does and do the opposite. Maybe I just dabble too much.

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  8. Sarah Harbottle Avatar
    Sarah Harbottle

    “Chase after it with everything we’ve got” Thanks for the encouragement, Chris!

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  9. colivares7576@gmail.com Avatar
    colivares7576@gmail.com

    Thanks Chris!

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