On September 27, 2008, the favored Florida Gators football team was upset in a stunning loss to Ole Miss.  The Gators, led by the soft-spoken, Christ-declaring, Heisman Trophy winning (last season) quarterback Tim Tebow (home schooled, by the way, with parents who are missionaries), quickly lost their goal of an undefeated season. Their national standings also slipped, of course, and they were forced to play the rest of the year in catch-up mode.

 

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After the loss to Ole Miss, Tim Tebow gave the usual after-game analysis.  It was full of the normal salutations to the other team, what Florida could have done better, etc.  But then, unexpectedly, at the end of these statements, young Mr. Tebow did something special. He spoke from the heart. 
 
Last year, Tim Tebow won the Heisman trophy, the pinnacle of college football individual achievement. But life is not always winning and awards, as the Florida Gators lost the Florida Citrus Bowl to the Michigan Wolverines 41-35 (In a game that had me split in half, for sure)! Then, early in this season, Tebow and the Gators were upset by Ole Miss.

 

Champions don't always win. The skies are not consistently rosey for anyone. Everybody takes shots, experiences losses, gets knocked down, and gets dealt losing hands. I wish statements like this next one didn't start to sound like cliches, because it robs them of the power of their truth, but:

 

"It's not what happens to you, it's how you respond."

 

Think about that statement.

 

I deal with all types of people from all walks of life. The one thing I can say that consistently separates the winners from the rest is the attitude embodied in this statement, and in the type of comments made by Tim Tebow following his loss to Ole Miss.

 

Notice Tebow didn't promise victories; he knew he couldn't guarantee that.

 

Also notice that he didn't make excuses; he accepted responsibility.

 

But he instead went toward hard work, encouraging others, and team play. That's what champions do. They come back strongly.

 

And perhaps the best thing Tebow said was, "a lot of good will come out of this."

 

That's the attitude of a champion. In the seeds of adversity is found the good of future strength.

 

I don't know what troubles you may be facing in your life. I don't know what reversals this tough economy might be putting you through. But I do know that if you have the attitude of overcoming, of a proper response, of courage and perseverance, and you respond to your challenges and setbacks by allowing them to make you better and stronger; you will win. Oh, not always. 

 

After all, it's not about winning every game.

 

It's about becoming a champion in the process.

 

That's what Tim Tebow and the Florida Gators did.  And for the way in which they did it, I congratulate them.

 

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12 responses to “The Promise of a Champion”

  1. Matt Franks Avatar
    Matt Franks

    Hey Chris –
    I love your post about adversity and using Tim Tebow as an example is so on target! Not sure if you have seen this clip or not, but I saw it on an awards show where he was receiving an award and it gave me a whole new level of respect for him.

    Each trial we face has a treasure buried in it somewhere.
    Although I am not a Gators fan I am a huge fan of Tebow’s. There are plenty of other athletes that are just as talented as him, but don’t possess his hunger.
    Hunger will always beat talent, when talent doesn’t posses hunger!
    God Bless,
    Matt

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  2. Richard Clarke Avatar

    Chris, good post, brought a tear to my eye, thank you.. Richard

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  3. Richard Clarke Avatar

    Hi Chris after getting over my emotional moment I thought I’d post a slightly more measured response. There is no doubt in my mind based on my experience as a coach to leaders, that the more willing is a leader to take responsibility the quicker the bounce. I had in my store of material a quote from an article in the FT from about four years ago talking about the failure at Barings bank – remember that rogue trader Nick Leeson! The quote is as follows:
    “The second problem is psychological. When somebody is involved in a public debacle such as Barings, or the corporate scandals in the US and Europe after the 1990s, the public is unlikely to believe he is blameless. It is easier on the psyche to admit to yourself that you messed up. Otherwise, you will be doomed to keep droning on about all the mitigating factors to sceptical listeners.
    That was painfully true of the nine Barings executives who were found guilty of misconduct by regulators and one or two who escaped. Those who suffered most seemed to me the ones who denied blame. Appeals dragged on for years, marriages collapsed, people became embittered and dispirited. They never quite removed the albatross from around their necks.
    Others were more dispassionate. The exemplar was Peter Norris, Barings’ chief executive, who was put under the greatest scrutiny of all. He admitted from the start that it was his responsibility and did not appeal against being banned from working in the City or struck off as a company director. As a result, he was among the quickest to recover.”
    Today Peter Norris is CEO of a merchant bank, and Nick Leeson himself CEO of a premier league Irish Football Team. Nick achieved a psychology qualification after his release from prison.

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  4. Brent Campau Avatar
    Brent Campau

    I totally forgot about the Nat’l Championship game. I wanted to watch Tebow, so late on Thursday, I plugged in my TV antenna (don’t laugh, I don’t pay for cable) and I was able to get FOX (not a FOX promo).
    Well the game was in the 3rd quarter and it was tied 7-7, a defensive struggle. Virtually every play on Florida’s offense highly involved Tebow, meaning he wasn’t just taking snaps and handing the ball off. What I saw was amazing. Tebow virtually WILLED his Team down the field. When he threw, he was throwing bullets right on target. If he ran the ball, and he did about 60% of the time, you could not bring him down. He would take hits and move the pile an extra 2-3 yards. He’s a quarterback! not a 230 lb. full back. As a football player, some of you understand what that means. But even if you were the avg spectator, there was no mistaking his WILL. Quite incredible. That must be summoned from somewhere.

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  5. Phyllis Hoff Avatar
    Phyllis Hoff

    Chris:
    There are so many statements in this post to comment on.
    First of all, thanks for sharing this regarding Tim Tebow. He definitely is a champion and he didn’t make excuses; he accepted responsibility.
    I was recently in a meeting where we were all asked to submit our business plans for 2009 by a certain date in January. There is alot of transition going on, and while yes, things are a little crazy, excuses were abundant. I was amazed that some thought excuses would be accepted, because they won’t.
    I love the quote:
    “It’s not what happens to you, it’s how you respond.”
    I have found that to be so true, over and over.
    Thank you for posting this, as I know with the challenges that are taking place at work right now, and that will continue to take place throughout the year, those
    are words and lessons I don’t want to forget.
    Thank you and God Bless.
    Phyllis

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  6. Cathy Avatar
    Cathy

    Chris,
    Every day in life we all have a simple choice, and it’s obvious this young football player knows it:
    We can pull defeat out of the jaws of victory by our lousy attitude, which leads to improper thoughts and actions.
    Or . . .
    We can pull victory out of the jaws of defeat with our can-do attitude, which leads to proper thoughts and actions.
    It’s just that simple, despite all the hooplah and hype that tries to argue it away.
    I am currently finishing Colin Powell’s autobiography “My American Journey” as my ‘reading for entertainment’ book right now. If I hadn’t learned that principle I just outlined about attitude before now, I certainly would have got it reading General Powell’s book! It is peppered with his leadership and life lessons he learned coming up both in life and in the military. His lessons on attitude are ones he repeats many times over, and shows how his life and experiences confirm them. I heartily recommend the book. It is also an interesting insider’s viewpoint of military history from Vietnam to Desert Storm, and foriegn-policy-making in the Reagan, Bush Sr and Clinton eras.

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  7. Miguel Avatar
    Miguel

    Wow! Are you trying to make us cry!! I’ll never forget watching this! He’s a true leader. When he failed he took the blame and I saw on other clips that when he succeeds he gives the credit to his team mates! My hero!
    Thanks for posting this!

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  8. dean clouse Avatar
    dean clouse

    Two very important things to understand here. First, the Lions have first choice draft pick and second, isn’t he going into the draft? Any bets on whether the Lions pick him or the John guy who is third string QB from the college that doesn’t have a name? I would love to see him QB for the Lions. Finally someone with heart and passion!

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  9. Dom.E. Avatar
    Dom.E.

    It is just amazing that a kid in his early 20s is doing something that many older guys who play for money can’t even do: take responsibilty onto their shoulders and not let the coach get fired for their terrible play.
    I’ve heard fromer Lions head coach Rod Marinelli say some good leadership-like quotes in the past few years as well.

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  10. Brent Campau Avatar
    Brent Campau

    Sorry Dean,
    He is staying for his senior season at Florida.

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  11. Jody Seavers Avatar
    Jody Seavers

    This is great!! The Lord keeps putting people like you guys in our lives to help us overcome our troubled times and look to our creator–the Lord Jesus Christ the author and finisher of our faith. Thank you!!

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  12. Juanita Avatar
    Juanita

    Chris, thanks for sharing yet again, no matter how many times your post is read, there is always something learned, and something to think about. Love Tim T. He is one of the best young players to show what teamwork is really all about. Thanks for sharing this post again, even though I could view it on your blog. ๐Ÿ™‚

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