In reading the story of the Pentecost, that day on which the Apostles were visited by the Holy Spirit and given the power of signs and wonders and speaking to all nations, I was struck by something: the "Others." The Bible relates how there was a loud sound from heaven and the people gathered around, marveling at the ability of some mere Galileans to be able to communicate to each of them in their own languages. Thousands were amazed and convicted by the explanation given by Peter, whereby he explained Old Testament prophesies being fulfilled in their presence. But, the Bible is quick to say, there were others who thought the apostles were victims of "new wine." From this event we can see that even when the Holy Spirit manifests Himself in a most powerful and visible way, at which point thousands are convicted and believe, there will still be "others" who scoff.

If there were scoffers on such a day, there will be scoffers in every day. If there were scoffers at such a miraculous and powerful display, there will certainly be scoffers at lesser things. These "others" are everywhere, at all times throughout history. They have been there at every sermon ever preached by those same apostles, they have been there at the proclamation of every new discovery, every new invention, every new idea, every new attempt by someone to achieve something of significance. And yes, they have been there at every step of our own little lives, as well.

These "others" feel obligated to tell us what won't work, what we should have done differently, how the quarterback should have played, how the manager should have managed, how the preacher should have preached, how the painter should have painted, how the writer should have written, how the businessman should have conducted himself, and even how the parent should have parented. These "others" are the court jesters of our lives, with no qualifications of their own, save for an acid tongue and a negative perspective. It doesn't matter what you do, for what reasons, or how well you do it, there will ALWAYS, and I mean ALWAYS be someone who stands in opposition, judgment, criticism, and opposition.

We should not be surprised at this. Nor should we despair. Rather, we should be thankful the "others" are so reliably there. After all, it's the overcoming of obstacles that makes us better and forces us to continually examine our motives, improve our performance, and perfect our crafts. These "others" can thus be seen to be like the weights in a gym. Who would show up at a workout facility and lament the presence of barbells and weights? It is the resistance they provide which builds the muscle – as long as the possessor of the muscles is willing to work against that resistance. Therein lies the key. As long as we are willing to strive against the "others" we will be made better by their sorry position in life. From such an understanding we can see that rather than resent them we should be thankful for them, and perhaps harbor a little pity on their behalf. After all, they are the ones who seem relegated to the peanut gallery, while we are blessed enough to be out on the field of life.   

 

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8 responses to “There Will Always Be “Others””

  1. robert wilcox Avatar
    robert wilcox

    Wow! Thank you for the blog post Chris could not have picked a better time. “Others” help us to get focused more and to grow more in the relationship area. I have noticed in my own experience if we don’t look deep and learn from it we could end up on a spiral downward to where we could end up being the others. Thanks for the quick course correction ๐Ÿ™‚
    Rob

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  2. Cathy - Team Rascals Avatar
    Cathy – Team Rascals

    Chris,
    You remind me of something in your awesome post I thought of once during a Team Open. I liked the thought so well, I tweeted it on Twitter that night, and also left it on my FaceBook page in my status.
    I said,
    “A critic hasn’t been there, hasnt’ done that and doesn’t want anyone else to get the tee shirt or video, either!”
    Long story short, I know lots of Others, aka critics, and grew up among most of them. I have learned to mostly behave a duck when I hear them speak, and just let the commentary flow off my back behind me. And on the occasional times when I do get upset about it, the phone lines to my mentor are almost always there . . .

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  3. Sherri Emerson - NY Musketeers Avatar
    Sherri Emerson – NY Musketeers

    Wow.. be thankful for the “others”. Not how I expected you to wrap that up. Thank you, Chris, for taking the time to share your wisdom.

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  4. Phyllis Hoff Avatar
    Phyllis Hoff

    Chris:
    Awesome post. Yes, they will always be there, no matter what great path you choose to follow. I used to get angry, then ignore, for awile act as though they don’t exist; however, that might be worse
    As you say the resistance makes us better.
    Thank you once again for your wisdom. God Bless.

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  5. Hunting.Targ Avatar
    Hunting.Targ

    I send heartfelt thanks for this article, Chris. Your thoughts have restored my perspective on adversity and renewed my drive to overcome it.
    -GW

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  6. Bruce Avatar
    Bruce

    “It doesn’t matter what you do, for what reasons, or how well you do it, there will ALWAYS, and I mean ALWAYS be someone who stands in opposition, judgment, criticism, and opposition.”
    You really shouldn’t have used the word “opposition” twice in that sentence.
    [ Sorry – couldn’t resist! ๐Ÿ™‚ ]
    Thanks for the timeless words of wisdom, Chris.

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  7. CJ Adams Avatar
    CJ Adams

    Challenges are truly blessings. Thank you Chris for sharing your insightful wisdom. All the best.

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  8. Chris Anderson Avatar
    Chris Anderson

    That’s awesome! Can borrow that statement Bruce?

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