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1. Being Boring. Speaking in front of a group of people is as much about entertaining as it is about informing, sharing facts, or explaining. For some reason, most public speakers are entirely oblivious to this truth. They seem to think that if they plow ahead and bury the audience with words that they are communicating. For the five things you must do to actually communicate with an audience, see my earlier article called Public Speaking According to Old MacDonald. 

2. Failure to Use Illustrations/Examples. This is the biggest reason speakers are boring. And by illustrations, I do not mean pictures and graphs on PowerPoint. I mean stories and colorations to bring your point(s) to life. Remember this: you haven't told them until you've shown them. I suffered through a sermon recently that was devoid of even one single example or illustration. If you can't (or don't, or worse, won't) come up with memorable sketches, illustrations, stories, and humorous little ditties to help bring your points to life, you are dead before you begin. Keep your seat when they introduce you. At least that way the audience will remember you.

3. Being Nervous. Okay, telling you not to be nervous is like saying don't have a headache when you do. Still, like a headache, there are things you can do to prevent them and even things you can do to mitigate their symptoms once you have one. The way to prevent nervousness is to practice your presentation a million times, even if it's just to your spouse who is wearing headphones and watching Youtube videos the whole time. Practice your talk until you're sick of it and you won't be as nervous. The other thing to do is give enough talks in front of people often enough that you no longer get nervous. I promise this will happen.

4. Not Credible. 76.5% of people agree that there is nothing worse in the whole world in our entire human existence than a speaker who over-exaggerates, makes unsustainable claims, and plays fast and loose with statistics. Stay away from statements such as "best in the world," "greatest ever," and words such as "unbelievable" and "awesome." If it's unbelievable, then why are you trying to get them to believe it? And awesome should be reserved for something that truly invokes awe, such as, say, the Creator of the universe. 

5. Using Power Point. The only thing I can think of that makes me shudder more than having to sit through a Power Point presentation is reading through the entire U.S. Tax Code. Twice. Oh, and having a dog lick the inside of my mouth. I would bet there are more people who've butchered presentations using Power Point than there are teenagers who've typed "LOL" into a smart phone.  Power Point is like a gun, perfect for what it's designed for but deadly in the hands of someone who doesn't know how to use it. So how can/do you use Power Point properly? Use no more than 10 slides and have no more than 10 words on each. If you actually read the text that comes up on the slides to the audience, you need to quit public speaking altogether and get a job writing U.S. Tax Code.

6. Going On Too Long. Rambling is only okay if you're a Jeep. Have something to say, say it in an entertaining and memorable way, then shut up and sit down. The cluelessness of speakers who go long is only akin to that of left lane drivers. Know how much time you've been given and stay well within it. The trick is to be done a few moments before the audience wants you to. This leaves them wanting more, which is good. Why would you want to leave them wanting less?

There's more, but if everybody who ever held a microphone in front of a group would only implement these six things, the world would be a better place.

The next time you are trapped in a boring speech that is going on too long with some dweeb reading teeny tiny text on a Power Point slide, remember this article and send it to them anonymously. Consider it an act of public service.

Sincerely,

Chris Brady

 

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15 responses to “The Top 6 Mistakes Public Speakers Make”

  1. Tim Stephens Avatar

    You weren’t boring, you used great illustrations and anecdotes,, didn’t seem nervous, 76.5% is SPOT ON, no slides present and you left me wanting more.
    Great job Chris! You must have done this a time or two. 😃

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  2. John Mossner Avatar
    John Mossner

    This article is so funny…and so true! Thanks. I’ll keep working on these things.

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  3. Kristen Seidl Avatar

    LOL!!! “Rambling is only okay if you’re a Jeep.” AWEsome article, Chris 😉

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  4. Norm Brinkley Avatar

    Great advice here, and I am so thankful for good practical points, especially point six, when to shut up. Norm

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  5. Chris Miller Avatar
    Chris Miller

    Thanks for the reminders Chris.

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  6. Tim Jarvinen Avatar
    Tim Jarvinen

    Fantastic article. Thanks for sharing!

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  7. Clint Fix Avatar

    Thank you for the awesome reminders, Chris! I try really hard to get better every time I speak! You still leave me in awe with your story telling capabilities. In particular, in your talks where you’re highlighting an individual and pulling out key traits that led to their success, you do a great job of making the story interesting and engaging while still hitting all of the traits you want to highlight. It’s impressive for sure!
    I love studying how you, Orrin, and others structure your talks and make your points. Very different styles but equally effective! Recently I’ve started studying Rob Robson’s humor – he literally makes me laugh out loud in a few of his different talks.
    I found that my talks seemed to go over much better when I started studying transitions, introductions and humor. It made everything go much more smoothly.
    I’m continually blown away by the caliber and diversity of the speakers that represent life leadership. I can’t imagine how deep the bench will be with amazing speakers in 10 more years!

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  8. John Hatchell Avatar
    John Hatchell

    Will be giving a prezy on ” How to respond to an Active Shooter class” to some teachers next few weeks, Thank you for giving me some usable info. Definitely want them to understand and have usable information in case of a crisis. Rock on Brother, keep it coming….

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  9. John hatchell Avatar
    John hatchell

    Love this, great timing !! Giving a prezy in a few weeks on “How to respond to an Active shooter ” to some high school Teachers. You have given me some ideas on the class. Rock on Brother keep it coming…….

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  10. Matthew Mielke Avatar
    Matthew Mielke

    Chris I’ll add one. If you want people to remember what you talked about then never forget to zip up the ole’ barn door. Not that I want to conjure up embarrassing moments in history, but the audience won’t remember a lick of what you said, but they’ll definitely remember you.

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  11. Tracey Avatar
    Tracey

    Well said, as always. If you’re going to learn, may as well learn from the best!! Thanks for your constant servant leadership!

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  12. Thera LeFeuvre Avatar
    Thera LeFeuvre

    Thank you Chris for excellent advice, so succinct and to the point as always. Some people waffle on and are like a pilot looking for a place to land.

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  13. CJ Calvert Avatar

    Chris, thanks for this list, and for a truly fantastic Friday leadership in Aylmer, Ontario, two weeks. I am able to add to your list, “Listen to every Chris Brady cd and study them.” listening and watching you present is not just a delight, but a CLINIC. If I were to narrow down to the single distinction that separates you from most other speakers I see, it is the very obvious sense of your preparation time, particularly on your LLR cds. You sound like your been researching, taking notes and preparing thoughts for weeks,not minutes. I frankly believe that we as speakers show our respect for the audience in our preparation time.

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  14. Steve Duba Avatar
    Steve Duba

    Thanks Chris.Big help.

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  15. Amanda Mikula Avatar
    Amanda Mikula

    Thank you Chris! I’m sure my Junior Church pupils will appreciate it, too!
    Amanda Mikula

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